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How to build great relationships at work with relational intelligence

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December 20, 2019

Relationships are hard, aren’t they?

Getting to know someone for the first time, working with someone who has a different perspective, working through conflict, and simply learning to trust someone are challenges we’ve all gone or will go through at some point in our life.

It’s not surprising that many people have dedicated their lives to studying the nature of human relationships; human beings are complex systems, and it’s fascinating to learn about them (we think so!).

Earlier this year, we got to see iconic psychotherapist and bestselling author Esther Perel deconstruct the complex system of relationships while following her one perennial truth, that the quality of your relationships is what determines the quality of your life. Not only has she studied relationships between loved ones, she’s also unfolded the complexity behind professional relationships between colleagues.

Esther’s powerful words got us deeply interested in a new concept we hadn’t heard of before: Relational Intelligence.

What is Relational Intelligence?

There are many ways to define Relational Intelligence, but our preferred one is (no surprise!) inspired by Esther Perel’s work:

Relational Intelligence is our ability as humans to connect with others and establish trust.

You may have heard of Emotional Intelligence before, and wonder how it connects with Relational Intelligence. The way we see it, strong Emotional Intelligence enables Relational Intelligence to develop and expand. When you’re able to identify and understand your emotions and those of others, you’re better equipped for relationship building.

In the new world of work, where behavioural skills take precedence over technical skills, Relational Intelligence is a top competitive advantage for business success. Once considered a “soft skill” (what HR guru Josh Bersin refers to more aptly as “power skills”) in the workplace, our abilities to connect with and influence others, build trust, manage conflict, and communicate effectively are more important than ever. Let’s dig into that a bit further.

Why is Relational Intelligence important in our workplaces?

The workplace is evolving at a dizzying pace and it’s hard for organizations and people to keep up. As Gallup continues to demonstrate in their research, the question isn’t if these changes are coming—it’s how to deal with them.

Numerous studies show that while we’re more connected than ever in the digital world, we struggle to find that same connection in the real world. Just as much as relationships enrich our personal lives, it is often the quality of our relationships at work that determines the quality of our work, and our success. Stronger relationships make for more meaningful discussions, more innovative solutions, and ultimately better business outcomes.

Signs of strong workplace relationships:

  • People are vulnerable with each other and share their honest thoughts
  • People willingly share information and learnings with one another
  • People and teams experiment with new ideas and think outside of the box

Impact on the business:

  • The fear of having difficult or sensitive conversations is removed and alignment increases
  • Silos are broken and teams work together towards common goals faster and more efficiently
  • The fear of failure is removed and innovation and creativity unfold

As Esther Perel says: “No amount of money or purpose or even free food can compensate for a poisonous relationship at work.” She also urged organizations to re-evaluate where they invest their time and resources and focus more on the quality of relationships in the workplace.

But what about the work?

Let’s step back and name the elephant in the room here: is there not a danger that if we focus so much on workplace relationships, the work just won’t get done?

Managers have big mandates to reach, and between the needs of your team and the needs of your boss, you might be wondering when you’ll have time to prioritize building Relational Intelligence. The good news is that relationship-building doesn’t have to come at the price of diminished team performance. On the contrary…

Task-oriented leadership is often contrasted against relationship-oriented leadership, but we strongly believe that they don’t have to work in opposition. In the long-term, focusing on relationships and enabling them can lead to higher performance and better outcomes. As they say,

Alone you go faster, together you go further.

Being relationship-focused doesn’t mean trying to ensure that everyone is friends, or that no discomfort or disagreement ever comes up. In fact, done properly, relationship building should not discourage conflict itself but rather encourage the safety to challenge ideas and work through conflict, so that when conflicts do arise, they can be resolved and lead to better outcomes.

Having people with strong Relational Intelligence on your teams not only contributes to a culture of engagement but to better and more innovative ideas being generated, enhanced team dynamics and collaboration and a stronger sense of shared meaning and purpose. That’s why it’s fundamental that managers encourage and foster these relational bonds both within and outside their team.

Don’t worry, we’re here to help with just that.

How do you build Relational Intelligence?

So how do you build Relational Intelligence, whether your own or on your team? There is no secret recipe, but the best place to start is with genuine curiosity and deep listening.

At our Relational Intelligence workshop at C2 Montreal 2019, in just 90 minutes we were able to generate true connection between people who knew nothing about each other prior to the conference. Attendees experienced how exercising their curiosity and deep listening helped them to better perform the same task at the end of the workshop as they had at the beginning.

Exercises to practice curiosity and deep listening with a group

Try these exercises with your team to help build those genuine connections.

Being heard, not seen

Invite people to form groups of 3 or 4 people. Ask them to close their eyes and give them 5 minutes to talk and try to find 3 things that they have in common and that makes their group unique or distinctive compared to other groups. This might be uncomfortable at first, but the lack of visual contact forces people to truly focus on what others are saying.

Opening up the conversation

Have everyone sit in a group and pick some questions they can ask each other. You can start with low intensity questions such as the following:

  • Can you tell us about one person who has influenced you in your life?
  • Do you think the world will be a better or worse place 100 years from now?
  • What is something new you’ve learned to do in the past year?
  • Can you share with us a treasured memory?

There are hundreds of questions like these that people can ask each other. You can also invite people to contribute their own questions. It’s in the small discoveries that people make about each other that connections start to build.

Getting real, and really listening

Invite people to practice deep listening in pairs. Ask one person (‘the sharer”) to share a situation that is real for them right now for which they have no resolution. Invite the sharer to speak while their partner (“the listener”) listens.

After 3 minutes, instruct the listeners to now listen differently, either by remaining silent or asking powerful questions. Insist on the fact that the listener should resist the urge to jump in with ideas or try to comfort the other person.

Here are some examples of powerful questions Relational Intelligence that can be suggested:

  • How do you feel in the situation?
  • Why is this affecting you?
  • What deeply matters to you?
  • What’s your biggest need?
  • What are you afraid of?
  • What are you learning about yourself in this experience?
  • What could help you get a sense of forward momentum?
  • If you imagine the best case scenario, what would happen?

Have the pairs switch roles, then invite everyone to debrief on the quality of the listening and the effects it had on the sharer.

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Management Tip: To build your own Relational Intelligence, practice implementing the premises from these activities in your day-to-day. For example, ask some of the powerful questions in coaching conversations or one-on-ones with employees.

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How can you measure the quality of your relationships with the people you work with?

Like all human sciences, the quality of relationships are easy to gauge but very difficult to precisely measure. You can qualify your relationships, saying things like “we get along well” or “we’re a perfect match!” but you won’t ever hear someone say “I love my wife an 8 out of 10!” You can’t quite put a number on it.

This said, it’s easier if you break it down into something tangible. When managers can pinpoint the areas of their employees’ experience and team dynamics that need attention, they’re more equipped to take action that will have a real impact.

Science has helped us pinpoint the key components that contribute to employee engagement. Among these components are relationships with our peers and with our manager, and by asking specific questions we can better understand precisely which elements of the relationship work well and which need some work.

Here are some questions that are asked to qualify workplace relationships among peers in Officevibe's Pulse Survey software:

  • Do you respect the people you work with?
  • Do you feel that your peers are contributing ​to achieving team goals?
  • Do you feel that you are part of a team?
  • Do your peers welcome opinions different from their own?
  • Can you count on your peers when you need help?
  • Do you trust your peers?

Learn more about how Officevibe can help you keep a pulse on your team.

In the end, human relationships are complex. They take hard work and a lot of time to build. But when they’re genuine, deep and meaningful, they take our lives to a whole other level. In a world where technology is omnipresent, it’s essential for all of us to take a moment to slow down and connect to those around us, because it’s with them that we share our lives, have meaningful experiences, build amazing products or provide exceptional service.

When we invest in our workplace relationships, we go from people working together to a connected team that builds together and shares meaning.​

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Relationships are hard, aren’t they?

Getting to know someone for the first time, working with someone who has a different perspective, working through conflict, and simply learning to trust someone are challenges we’ve all gone or will go through at some point in our life.

It’s not surprising that many people have dedicated their lives to studying the nature of human relationships; human beings are complex systems, and it’s fascinating to learn about them (we think so!).

Earlier this year, we got to see iconic psychotherapist and bestselling author Esther Perel deconstruct the complex system of relationships while following her one perennial truth, that the quality of your relationships is what determines the quality of your life. Not only has she studied relationships between loved ones, she’s also unfolded the complexity behind professional relationships between colleagues.

Esther’s powerful words got us deeply interested in a new concept we hadn’t heard of before: Relational Intelligence.

What is Relational Intelligence?

There are many ways to define Relational Intelligence, but our preferred one is (no surprise!) inspired by Esther Perel’s work:

Relational Intelligence is our ability as humans to connect with others and establish trust.

You may have heard of Emotional Intelligence before, and wonder how it connects with Relational Intelligence. The way we see it, strong Emotional Intelligence enables Relational Intelligence to develop and expand. When you’re able to identify and understand your emotions and those of others, you’re better equipped for relationship building.

In the new world of work, where behavioural skills take precedence over technical skills, Relational Intelligence is a top competitive advantage for business success. Once considered a “soft skill” (what HR guru Josh Bersin refers to more aptly as “power skills”) in the workplace, our abilities to connect with and influence others, build trust, manage conflict, and communicate effectively are more important than ever. Let’s dig into that a bit further.

Why is Relational Intelligence important in our workplaces?

The workplace is evolving at a dizzying pace and it’s hard for organizations and people to keep up. As Gallup continues to demonstrate in their research, the question isn’t if these changes are coming—it’s how to deal with them.

Numerous studies show that while we’re more connected than ever in the digital world, we struggle to find that same connection in the real world. Just as much as relationships enrich our personal lives, it is often the quality of our relationships at work that determines the quality of our work, and our success. Stronger relationships make for more meaningful discussions, more innovative solutions, and ultimately better business outcomes.

Signs of strong workplace relationships:

  • People are vulnerable with each other and share their honest thoughts
  • People willingly share information and learnings with one another
  • People and teams experiment with new ideas and think outside of the box

Impact on the business:

  • The fear of having difficult or sensitive conversations is removed and alignment increases
  • Silos are broken and teams work together towards common goals faster and more efficiently
  • The fear of failure is removed and innovation and creativity unfold

As Esther Perel says: “No amount of money or purpose or even free food can compensate for a poisonous relationship at work.” She also urged organizations to re-evaluate where they invest their time and resources and focus more on the quality of relationships in the workplace.

But what about the work?

Let’s step back and name the elephant in the room here: is there not a danger that if we focus so much on workplace relationships, the work just won’t get done?

Managers have big mandates to reach, and between the needs of your team and the needs of your boss, you might be wondering when you’ll have time to prioritize building Relational Intelligence. The good news is that relationship-building doesn’t have to come at the price of diminished team performance. On the contrary…

Task-oriented leadership is often contrasted against relationship-oriented leadership, but we strongly believe that they don’t have to work in opposition. In the long-term, focusing on relationships and enabling them can lead to higher performance and better outcomes. As they say,

Alone you go faster, together you go further.

Being relationship-focused doesn’t mean trying to ensure that everyone is friends, or that no discomfort or disagreement ever comes up. In fact, done properly, relationship building should not discourage conflict itself but rather encourage the safety to challenge ideas and work through conflict, so that when conflicts do arise, they can be resolved and lead to better outcomes.

Having people with strong Relational Intelligence on your teams not only contributes to a culture of engagement but to better and more innovative ideas being generated, enhanced team dynamics and collaboration and a stronger sense of shared meaning and purpose. That’s why it’s fundamental that managers encourage and foster these relational bonds both within and outside their team.

Don’t worry, we’re here to help with just that.

How do you build Relational Intelligence?

So how do you build Relational Intelligence, whether your own or on your team? There is no secret recipe, but the best place to start is with genuine curiosity and deep listening.

At our Relational Intelligence workshop at C2 Montreal 2019, in just 90 minutes we were able to generate true connection between people who knew nothing about each other prior to the conference. Attendees experienced how exercising their curiosity and deep listening helped them to better perform the same task at the end of the workshop as they had at the beginning.

Exercises to practice curiosity and deep listening with a group

Try these exercises with your team to help build those genuine connections.

Being heard, not seen

Invite people to form groups of 3 or 4 people. Ask them to close their eyes and give them 5 minutes to talk and try to find 3 things that they have in common and that makes their group unique or distinctive compared to other groups. This might be uncomfortable at first, but the lack of visual contact forces people to truly focus on what others are saying.

Opening up the conversation

Have everyone sit in a group and pick some questions they can ask each other. You can start with low intensity questions such as the following:

  • Can you tell us about one person who has influenced you in your life?
  • Do you think the world will be a better or worse place 100 years from now?
  • What is something new you’ve learned to do in the past year?
  • Can you share with us a treasured memory?

There are hundreds of questions like these that people can ask each other. You can also invite people to contribute their own questions. It’s in the small discoveries that people make about each other that connections start to build.

Getting real, and really listening

Invite people to practice deep listening in pairs. Ask one person (‘the sharer”) to share a situation that is real for them right now for which they have no resolution. Invite the sharer to speak while their partner (“the listener”) listens.

After 3 minutes, instruct the listeners to now listen differently, either by remaining silent or asking powerful questions. Insist on the fact that the listener should resist the urge to jump in with ideas or try to comfort the other person.

Here are some examples of powerful questions Relational Intelligence that can be suggested:

  • How do you feel in the situation?
  • Why is this affecting you?
  • What deeply matters to you?
  • What’s your biggest need?
  • What are you afraid of?
  • What are you learning about yourself in this experience?
  • What could help you get a sense of forward momentum?
  • If you imagine the best case scenario, what would happen?

Have the pairs switch roles, then invite everyone to debrief on the quality of the listening and the effects it had on the sharer.

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Management Tip: To build your own Relational Intelligence, practice implementing the premises from these activities in your day-to-day. For example, ask some of the powerful questions in coaching conversations or one-on-ones with employees.

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How can you measure the quality of your relationships with the people you work with?

Like all human sciences, the quality of relationships are easy to gauge but very difficult to precisely measure. You can qualify your relationships, saying things like “we get along well” or “we’re a perfect match!” but you won’t ever hear someone say “I love my wife an 8 out of 10!” You can’t quite put a number on it.

This said, it’s easier if you break it down into something tangible. When managers can pinpoint the areas of their employees’ experience and team dynamics that need attention, they’re more equipped to take action that will have a real impact.

Science has helped us pinpoint the key components that contribute to employee engagement. Among these components are relationships with our peers and with our manager, and by asking specific questions we can better understand precisely which elements of the relationship work well and which need some work.

Here are some questions that are asked to qualify workplace relationships among peers in Officevibe's Pulse Survey software:

  • Do you respect the people you work with?
  • Do you feel that your peers are contributing ​to achieving team goals?
  • Do you feel that you are part of a team?
  • Do your peers welcome opinions different from their own?
  • Can you count on your peers when you need help?
  • Do you trust your peers?

Learn more about how Officevibe can help you keep a pulse on your team.

In the end, human relationships are complex. They take hard work and a lot of time to build. But when they’re genuine, deep and meaningful, they take our lives to a whole other level. In a world where technology is omnipresent, it’s essential for all of us to take a moment to slow down and connect to those around us, because it’s with them that we share our lives, have meaningful experiences, build amazing products or provide exceptional service.

When we invest in our workplace relationships, we go from people working together to a connected team that builds together and shares meaning.​

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Annual performance reviews have long been a cornerstone of workplace culture, but are they serving employees and organizations effectively? In a recent Workleap webinar, our expert panel tackled this question head-on, exploring why traditional performance reviews often fall short and what HR leaders can do to create a more effective, continuous performance management system.  

Featuring insights from Ricky Muddimer, Co-founder at Thinking Focus; Irina Mocanu, Senior HR Advisor at Workleap; and Brian O'Reilly, Performance Management Product Director at Workleap, the discussion left attendees with actionable takeaways for driving meaningful change in their organizations.

Here’s a recap of the key insights and strategies shared during the session.

Annual reviews may be the standard but they’re failing organizations (here’s why!)

Annual reviews have been the default approach for decades, but as workplace needs evolve, many organizations are questioning their effectiveness. During the webinar, we ran two polls to better understand how organizations approach performance management. The results were revealing:

What is your organization's performance review cadence?

  • 66% rely on formal annual reviews.
  • 16% use formal quarterly or monthly reviews.
  • 9% provide informal, ongoing real-time feedback.
  • 9% have no formal process at all.
Poll answers from our recent Workleap webinar, "Why annual reviews fail and how HR can prevent it"

 

How would you rate your current performance review process?

  • Only 3% said it’s "going really well."
  • 19% feel it’s working but could use minor tweaks.
  • 47% admitted it could be improved.
  • 31% said it needs a major overhaul.

Poll answers from our recent Workleap webinar, "Why annual reviews fail and how HR can prevent it"

These results highlight the problem: while annual reviews remain the standard, they often fail to deliver on their promise of fostering engagement and driving performance. “The annual review isn’t the issue in itself,” said Irina Mocanu. “The issue arises when it’s the only touchpoint for feedback all year long.”  

This gap leaves employees feeling blindsided and disengaged. When feedback is only delivered once a year, it’s impossible to address problems early or celebrate successes when they happen.

4 ways to improve your performance management approach

If annual reviews are just one piece of the puzzle, what does an effective performance management system look like? During the discussion, the panel outlined four foundational principles:  

1. Create a regular rhythm of feedback

Regular check-ins between managers and employees are critical for keeping communication lines open. These touchpoints prevent surprises during formal reviews and allow managers to address issues early. Ricky Muddimer emphasized that the frequency of these check-ins should depend on the organization.  

“Rhythm means addressing issues early  — when someone needs a little support, for example — and celebrating successes consistently. Whether it’s daily, weekly, or bi-weekly, find a cadence that works for your team,” he says. “It’s important to do a sense check of how your people are doing so there are no surprises come the annual review”  

2. Establish a compelling "why”

Performance management should feel valuable for everyone involved. As Ricky explained, “When managers and employees view performance management as an opportunity for growth and connection, it becomes something they actively want to participate in.” Employees want to know their managers are invested in their development, and managers need to see these conversations as opportunities to build stronger teams.

3. Keep it simple

Performance management often gets bogged down by administrative tasks and bureaucracy. But the focus should always be on people. Ricky put it best: “Your performance management approach has to be simple and easy to use. It must prioritize people over the process.” Simplicity ensures managers and employees can spend their energy on meaningful conversations, not paperwork.

4. Monitor your approach

A great performance management system isn’t a one-and-done implementation — it requires continuous refinement. As Irina emphasized, “Monitor what works, what doesn’t work, and adapt. If you stop, in three years, you’ll realize your performance management system is out of date.”  

To keep processes relevant and effective, HR teams should regularly assess their approach, gather feedback from managers and employees, and make small, incremental improvements rather than waiting for major overhauls.

Overcoming barriers to continuous feedback

Transitioning from annual reviews to a more continuous feedback model isn’t easy, but the benefits are undeniable. The panel shared their thoughts on the most common challenges organizations face — and how to overcome them.  

Cultural shifts take time

Implementing a new performance management system often requires a cultural transformation. The panelists encouraged HR leaders to be patient with this process: “Start small and implement changes incrementally rather than overhauling the entire system at once. Progress, not perfection, should be the goal.” By starting with small wins, organizations can gradually build a foundation for larger changes.  

Managers need support

One of the biggest barriers to continuous feedback is managers’ reluctance to have difficult conversations — and the HR leaders agreed wholeheartedly in the webinar chat.  

“Often managers aren’t comfortable/haven’t had enough training [on how to have] difficult conversations and giving and receiving feedback,” one attendee shared. “The problem is everything in training sounds great until it has to come out of your own mouth,” said another HR leader.  

To help managers build confidence in performance conversations, organizations need to reinforce training with ongoing support and accountability. As Irina and Ricky pointed out, training alone isn’t enough — HR leaders need to check in with managers regularly to understand their challenges and ensure feedback is meaningful and actionable.  

One approach is setting clear expectations, like Amazon’s leadership principles, which define how managers should foster high-performing teams. Another is directly evaluating managers on how well they implement continuous feedback and whether their team is high-performing. Ultimately, driving this cultural shift requires not only equipping managers but also empowering employees to take ownership of their performance and feedback.  

Prioritizing continuous feedback requires ongoing effort

Many managers, especially leader do-ers juggling multiple roles, struggle to make time for regular check-ins. Day-to-day operations often take priority, making structured performance conversations an afterthought. However, avoiding these discussions can lead to bigger issues down the line.

Managers already spend time addressing problems caused by a lack of clarity. Instead of reacting to issues, a proactive approach — setting clear expectations and providing regular feedback — prevents problems from escalating. Organizations that prioritize frequent check-ins see fewer performance gaps and build stronger, more engaged teams.  

How technology can help

Technology has become an essential tool for streamlining performance management and reducing administrative burdens. Brian O’Reilly shared how Workleap’s tools are designed to make performance management easier and more impactful.  

“Having a central spot to document one-on-ones and goals ensures no progress gets lost or forgotten,” Brian explained. Tools that centralize feedback and provide insights — both quantitative and qualitative — make it easier for managers to focus on meaningful conversations.  

AI also plays a role in enhancing performance management. “One of the major issues of the annual review model is recency bias,” Brian said. “AI, in conjunction with using the right tools and having access to the right performance insights, can help give managers extra context and cognitive load.” This allows managers to consider an employee’s entire body of work rather than focusing on recent events.

Voices from the webinar chat

Throughout the webinar, attendees actively engaged in the discussion, sharing their own challenges and perspectives on performance management. Their insights reinforced the importance of consistency, effective feedback, and balancing accountability with empathy. Here are a few standout comments that resonated:  

  • On leaders being consistent: “My mantra has always been: be fair and consistent in all you do and who you interact with. That goes a long way.”
  • On feedback as an opportunity: “We need to teach people how to have difficult conversations, not just conversations. Start with the positive and position feedback as an opportunity for growth.”
  • On balancing humanity with performance: “There are ways to ensure that people understand they are valued and that it’s human not to be perfect. That notwithstanding, we need to be honest — in strict behavioral terms — about areas of improvement.”

These comments reflect the shared challenges and aspirations of HR leaders striving to make performance management more human and effective. Kick off your performance revamp with these key takeaways  Bringing all these insights together, our panelists shared essential takeaways for HR leaders looking to transition from outdated performance reviews to a more continuous, human-centered approach:  

  1. Redefine performance: Start by defining what performance means in your organization. At Workleap, we focus on two dimensions: behaviors (e.g., embracing change, innovation) and accomplishments (e.g., the impact of work). “Defining performance criteria that align with your culture is essential,” Irina said.
  1. Integrate feedback into existing rituals: Reinforcing continuous feedback doesn’t mean reinventing the wheel. "When you embed continuous feedback sharing into existing ways of working, it becomes a much more natural process and it’s much easier for leaders to build this reflex,” says Irina.
  1. Engage employees and managers: Equip managers with the tools, training, and support they need to have meaningful conversations and empower employees to take ownership of their own growth. It’s important to constantly remind them of your “why,” so they can feel accountable.
  1. Refine and adapt: Gather feedback after implementation to refine the process. As Ricky noted, “This is about progress, not perfection. Set incremental goals and adjust as needed.”

Want to dive deeper? Catch the full conversation and get expert insights on how to transform performance management

The insights shared during this webinar are just the beginning. To hear more about how to navigate cultural shifts, leverage technology, and foster a culture of continuous feedback, watch the full recording.  Transforming performance management isn’t easy, but the rewards — increased engagement, better alignment, and stronger teams — are well worth the effort.  

When you hear "performance review," what comes to mind? As a manager, do you think of it as a once-a-year task that's just part of your checklist? Or perhaps, do you think of it as a laborious process with no clearly useful output?

Rest assured; the performance review process can be utilized strategically and absolutely be done in a way that is structured, effective, and impactful.

In this article, you'll find your ultimate guide to employee performance reviews. We'll walk you through the essential steps involved in conducting effective performance reviews and provide guidance on what a successful review should look like — before, during, and after. When done right, they can contribute to employee growth, development, and higher business performance.

What is an employee performance review?

Let's first cover the basics. At its core, a performance review is a structured process that evaluates an individual's job performance and provides constructive feedback. Performance reviews are an essential part of the performance management process and support goal-setting, monitoring, and accountability.

Traditionally, a performance review has been an annual event, but in the modern workplace, with continuous performance management gaining traction, performance reviews have taken different forms — be it regular check-ins or ongoing feedback to foster employee development and improvement. In this new era of performance management, managers become more like coaches who empower their employees to reach their full potential.

👉 Find our guide to the modern way of conducting performance reviews with insightful tips and case studies to get inspired.

Why are employee performance reviews important?

Performance reviews don't have to be complicated, just as long as you don't undervalue their power either. They offer numerous benefits for both individuals and organizations at every level. They:

  • Improve communication
  • Identify strengths and weaknesses
  • Facilitate goal setting
  • Enhance employee engagement
  • Strengthen employee-manager relationships

By investing in performance reviews, you pave the way for continuous improvement and foster a more positive work culture.

Key elements of an effective performance review

Performance reviews play a crucial role in driving employee growth and development while contributing to higher business performance. To conduct impactful performance reviews, it's essential to incorporate key elements that foster a supportive, collaborative, and ultimately thriving environment.

Here are the key elements of an effective performance review process:

Frequent review cycles

Break away from the anxiety-inducing annual performance review and normalize conversations about performance. Implementing regular review cycles allows for ongoing feedback, ensuring employees stay on track and have the opportunity to grow continuously.

For example, quarterly or monthly check-ins provide timely feedback and help address any performance gaps promptly.

Two-way conversations

Performance reviews shouldn't be one-sided. By involving employees in two-way conversations, you demonstrate that their opinions and insights are valued, fostering a sense of ownership and engagement.

Encourage open dialogue and create a space for employees to share their perspectives, offer suggestions, and actively participate in the review process.

Focused on improvements

Modern performance reviews shift the focus from dwelling on past mistakes to emphasizing growth and development. By adopting a forward-thinking approach, you inspire a growth mindset and create a culture that supports continuous learning and development.

Encourage employees to reflect on their experiences, learn from them, and set goals for improvement.

Transparent and honest

Transparency and honesty are paramount in fostering trust between managers and employees. Establish clear communication channels to ensure employees understand how their performance is being assessed and how feedback will be provided.

Transparency also involves clearly communicating the evaluation criteria and ensuring employees have access to the necessary resources for improvement.

Fair and objective review process

A fair and objective review process is essential for employee morale and engagement. Use standardized evaluation criteria that are consistently applied across the organization. This helps maintain fairness and ensures that employees feel their performance is evaluated on an equal basis.

Objective evaluations foster trust and provide employees with a sense of confidence in the review process.

How to prepare for a performance review

To conduct an effective performance review, managers need to prepare in advance. Here are the key prep steps to get ready:

1. Align on performance evaluation criteria

Performance evaluations require a clear understanding of the criteria and metrics used to assess employee performance. It's essential for managers and employees to have a shared understanding of what constitutes good or poor performance.

For example, you might establish criteria such as meeting project deadlines, demonstrating strong communication skills, or displaying proactive problem-solving abilities. By aligning these criteria, you can ensure fairness and consistency in your evaluations.

2. Gather employee data and examples

To provide meaningful performance feedback, gather relevant qualitative and quantitative data, as well as examples that illustrate an employee's performance.

There are different methods of performance evaluation, all of which can be pooled to build a comprehensive performance picture. Qualitative data can come from employee self-evaluation, peer reviews, or supervisor assessments. Whereas quantitative data can come from sales figures or other productivity metrics.

By collecting a range of data and examples, you'll have a well-rounded view of the employee's performance that considers all factors — not just numbers.

3. Use a performance review template

Templates exist for a reason. They provide a pre-existing structure from which you can build on and customize. They also save you time!

Performance review templates provide a set of targeted questions that guide you through each aspect of the review, ensuring you cover all relevant areas with your employee. Using a template saves prep time and helps maintain consistency across each team member's evaluation. It also ensures that no important topics or questions are overlooked.

Officevibe includes performance review templates designed to make the review process even more streamlined, effective, and data-driven.

A preview of Officevibe's employee performance review template
Use performance review templates in Officevibe.

4. Prepare a meeting agenda

Before the performance review meeting, create a detailed agenda to guide the discussion. Outline the specific topics you want to cover, such as achievements, areas for improvement, and future goals. Consider including specific examples or projects to discuss during the meeting.

Having a clear agenda helps keep the conversation focused and ensures that all important points are addressed. It also shows employees that you have taken the time to prepare and value their performance.

👀 Check out our one-on-one meeting agendas that cover most manager-employee scenarios, including performance reviews, performance improvement plans, career development, and more!

5. Schedule your performance review meeting

Set a date and time for the performance review that works for both you and the employee. Choose a time when you can give your undivided attention and create a comfortable environment for open and honest conversation.

Avoid scheduling the review during particularly busy or stressful periods to ensure you can devote sufficient time and attention to the discussion. Scheduling the meeting in advance demonstrates your commitment to the employee's growth and development.

By following these steps and adequately preparing for the performance review, you set the stage for a productive and valuable discussion with your employees. Effective preparation ensures that you have the necessary information, structure, and focus to provide meaningful feedback and pave the way for future growth.

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How to conduct an employee performance review

Now that you're prepared, let's explore how to conduct an effective performance review. This is the time to engage in a productive conversation that supports employee growth and development.

The following guidelines provide the performance review framework you need to promote employee development, foster positive relationships, and drive organizational success:

1. Set a positive and constructive tone during the review

Approach the review with a supportive and coaching mindset. It's critical to create a safe space for open dialogue, which fosters collaboration much better than when employees don't feel like they have input. Remember that the goal is to empower employees in their future performance by emphasizing what they are capable of rather than reinforcing what they may not be doing well enough.

2. Share positive feedback and recognition

Similar to the compliment sandwich approach, balancing positive feedback with areas for improvement can go a long way. Make sure to share your own feedback and words of acknowledgment to strengthen your manager-employee bond. Additionally, pass on any feedback you received from other colleagues or leaders, which could help the employee feel valued and appreciated.

3. Offer constructive feedback

Discuss any performance challenges or areas of underperformance directly and constructively. By framing things in a constructive way and using specific examples to illustrate your points, you provide more actionable solutions for growth. Navigate difficult conversations with empathy and a focus on finding solutions together.

Need the inspiration to find high-quality feedback? Here are 22 constructive feedback examples and tips to help you deliver feedback that gets results.

4. Give specific examples

By providing specific examples, you can ensure clarity and facilitate productive discussions. Make sure to back up your feedback with concrete examples to make it more impactful and actionable. Contextualizing feedback with current and past performance examples, helps employees understand the specific behaviors or situations that need improvement or reinforcement.

5. Address performance challenges

During the review, address any performance challenges or areas of underperformance directly and constructively. There are many ways to approach poor work performance issues, just remember to lead these conversations with empathy and a focus on finding solutions. By addressing challenges head-on, you can work together with the employee to identify strategies for improvement and growth.

Granted, some conversations are a little bit more difficult than others. Hey, managers are only human. Read our difficult conversation tips to ensure the message (and solution) isn't getting lost in translation.

6. Listen actively

During the performance review, practice active listening to show genuine interest in the employee's perspective. Pay attention to their thoughts, concerns, and aspirations. By actively listening, you create an environment where employees feel heard and valued, fostering trust and engagement.

Active listening is definitely one of those skills that can help anyone in all areas of life — not just at work! So read our tips on how to practice the art of good listening.

7. Define the next steps

Collaborate with the employee to identify actionable next steps. This could look like:

  • Creating a development plan
  • Setting clear goals for improvement
  • Adjust existing performance targets as necessary

By involving employees in the process of defining the next steps, you empower them to take ownership of their growth and development.

Remember, conducting a performance review is not just a one-time event but part of an ongoing performance management system. Ultimately, ensuring continuous feedback and regular check-ins throughout the year helps set, align, and adjust employee goals when appropriate, which contributes to employee growth and success.

What to do after a performance review

The performance review doesn't end with the meeting. Here's what you can do to ensure continuous improvement and growth.

1. Follow up on the next steps

After the performance review, it's crucial to stay involved and provide ongoing support. Follow up on the next steps that were identified during the review. Schedule frequent one-on-ones and other touchpoints to monitor progress and measure results. This demonstrates your commitment to the employee's growth and helps ensure they are on the right track toward achieving their goals.

🤔 Not sure how often to schedule one-on-ones? Find your best formula for one-on-one frequency.

For example, if one of the next steps identified during the review was for the employee to improve their time management skills, you can schedule a follow-up meeting a month later to discuss their progress. During this meeting, you can ask specific questions about their strategies for improving time management, inquire about any challenges they may have encountered, and provide additional guidance or resources if needed.

By following up on next steps, you show that you are invested in your employees' success and provide an opportunity for course correction or further development.

2. Keep the performance conversation going

Embrace the beauty of continuous performance cycles by conducting regular check-ins and one-on-one meetings. These ongoing conversations provide opportunities to discuss progress, address challenges, and provide timely feedback. By maintaining an open line of communication, you can support employees in their growth journey and ensure that performance remains a priority.

For example, you can schedule bi-weekly or monthly one-on-one meetings with your employees to discuss their ongoing projects, address any obstacles they may be facing, and provide guidance or feedback. These meetings create a space for employees to share their achievements, seek guidance on their work, and discuss any new challenges that may have arisen, to assess at your next employee performance review. By keeping the performance conversation going, you demonstrate your commitment to their development and create an environment where continuous improvement is encouraged.

Officevibe supports continuous performance management. This feature provides tools and resources to facilitate ongoing feedback, goal tracking, and one-on-one meetings!

Effective performance review phrases to use in your next review

Crafting meaningful feedback is key to a successful performance review. Here are some examples of performance review phrases, be them appraisals or constructive, to inspire your next review:

  • Creativity: "Your innovative thinking has led to impressive solutions, pushing our team to new heights."
  • Communication: "Your clear and concise communication style has greatly improved team collaboration and project outcomes."
  • Accountability: "You consistently take ownership of your responsibilities, delivering results with a high level of accountability."
  • Productivity: "Your exceptional time management skills and efficient work habits have significantly increased productivity within the team."
  • Collaboration: "Your collaborative approach fosters a positive team environment, encouraging open communication and idea-sharing."
  • Coaching: "Your dedication to mentoring team members has empowered them to grow and excel in their roles."
  • Areas of improvement: "To further enhance your performance, focusing on improving your presentation skills will help you engage stakeholders more effectively."
  • Problem-solving: "Your analytical thinking and resourcefulness have consistently resulted in creative problem-solving and successful outcomes."

Again, following up on any performance feedback with specific examples will make the feedback itself more impactful by giving it context. This will also show the employee you gave the feedback thought. For example, you could pair praise about problem-solving with something along the lines of: "Last month, when we had an issue with project X, you managed to fix this by doing A, B, and C and that ensured we could deliver on time! Thank you."

⭐️ Find more examples of employee feedback that creates an impact, especially relating to more sensitive issues like the need for additional training or failing to meet deadlines, and best practices for delivering them.

Use performance management software

Theoretically, you can master your performance review approach all on your own. Logistically, however, there are ways you can make the entire performance management process infinitely easier for yourself (and your employees).

Performance management software like Officevibe turns the review process into a fun and dynamic aspect of the employee experience. With data-driven features such as goal setting, continuous feedback, and performance tracking, it simplifies, streamlines, and enhances the entire performance review process, making it fair, efficient, and engaging for both managers and employees.

By utilizing performance review software, you can maximize the benefits of performance management, foster employee development, and cultivate a positive work culture.

Elevate growth, engagement, and success with Officevibe

Mastering the art of employee performance reviews is essential for managers looking to drive growth, engagement, and success within their teams. By following the key steps outlined in this guide, you can conduct effective performance reviews that inspire improvement, empower employees, and contribute to overall organizational success.

Remember, performance reviews should be a collaborative and continuous process that prioritizes growth, feedback, and open communication. Embrace the opportunity to support your employees' development and create a culture of excellence!

MONTRÉAL — Nov. 25, 2024 — Workleap, a leading Canadian software company behind products that empower 20,000 companies in more than 100 countries to build better employee experiences, announces its fall platform release introducing new solutions and integrated features into an all-in-one simple-to-use platform. This release marks a new milestone in Workleap’s ongoing commitment to transform the employee experience by empowering HR leaders to drive organizational performance and achieve business goals.

Workleap’s comprehensive platform helps HR lead organizations to thrive in the modern setting of hybrid, remote, and distributed work environments. The consolidated solution for understanding employee engagement, driving performance, and developing employees is the best add-on to your existing HRIS and HR technology, allowing companies to add simple experiences across the employee lifecycle. Bringing these functions together in one platform, Workleap enables HR professionals to create a more responsive, agile and employee-centric work environment.

What's New

  • Workleap Performance streamlines performance management reviews and enables HR teams to guide managers to provide meaningful feedback, align teams with business goals, and easily track progress—all in one place.
  • Workleap Pingboard, an intuitive org-chart, visualization, and company building solution, will be integrated within the Workleap platform before the end of the year.
  • Integrated tools to help HR: Easily visualize employee engagement data within your org chart, streamline onboarding and learning workflows, accelerate content creation with AI designed for HR, and launch custom surveys across the employee journey.
  • Unmatched value: Game-changing bundled pricing lowers the barrier for HR teams of any size to enhance the employee experience.

Why It Matters

Hybrid work has completely reshaped the role of HR. It’s no longer just about managing employees—it’s about building the right frameworks, fostering authentic connections, and leveraging tools that drive meaningful outcomes,” said Simon De Baene, Co-founder and CEO of Workleap. “At Workleap, our mission is clear: make work simpler. The Workleap platform brings together the tools HR teams and leaders need to focus on what matters most—creating workplaces where people feel supported, connected, and empowered to grow. By continuing to invest in our platform, we’re accelerating innovation with solutions like Workleap Performance—designed to be simple, effective, and built to keep HR and leaders ahead as the future of work evolves.”

To learn more about Workleap’s employee experience platform, visit workleap.com.

About Workleap
Workleap is the best add-on to your HRIS to build better employee experiences. The all-in-one Workleap platform empowers organizations to make work simpler by unifying onboarding, engagement, performance, and development —in one platform.

Workleap is a Montréal, Canada-based company building the operating system for hybrid work—unifying the experience to streamline talent management and scale productivity tools across 20,000 companies in more than 100 countries.

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